Birthday Party Planning Tips - Kid's Birthday Party Etiquette
Birthday party tips, party etiquette and ideas that will help you create a fun,
stress-free and memorable kid's birthday party!

Have you returned from a birthday party thinking to yourself,
"How did she do that?  Every thing was perfect. The kids had fun and
Mom and Dad seemed so calm!" 
There are two possibilities...She either hired a party planner 
or she was organized and prepared.

Many moms believe that hosting a birthday party is filled with more energy, creativity and patience than they can muster. Not true! 
We've gathered favorite party planning tips from our own professionals,  Moms and Kids alike. If you cannot find your answer here, we would be happy to help you. Contact us!

BIRTHDAY PARTY PLANNING BASICS
If possible, begin planning your party 4-5 weeks in advance.
  Allowing plenty of time for on-line shopping, cake orders and enlisting
  any friends or family you may want to help.

Pick a theme.  Whether it's an elaborat royal kingdom theme,
  or something easier, like your child's favorite color, selecting a theme will
  help you organize your thoughts. You'll then plan all of your party supply 
  purchases, party games and decorations around that theme.

Children remember what they did at a party, much more than what they 
  ate, what the plates and napkins looked like or whether the house was
  spotless. Don't sweat the little details!

The best party times are......1:00 - 3:00 or 2:00 - 4:00
  You won't need to serve a meal but a few finger foods are advised
  For little ones try 10:00am -11:30 to work around nap time.

INVITATIONS

The Invitation Equation:
Child's age + 1 = happy kids
For children under 8 years old, invite as many children as the child's age plus one. Some parents choose to add 1 or 2 to this equation. Only you can know your limits. Of course, as your child gets much older the formula will need revision.

Who to Invite
Parties for very young children, more often than not will include family members; cousins, siblings etc.
As your child gets older, invite only your child's closest playmates.
They already know each other well which makes the party so much more fun! Think about friends from daycare, school, Sunday school, special relatives and neighbors.

It's not mandatory that you invite the siblings of your child's friends, or even parents (unless children are very young). Most parents enjoy the break and you won't feel so much pressure to entertain adults.

I don't want to leave anyone out!
This is a common dilemma, especially when your children 
begin to attend school. Try to be discreet by mailing the  invitations. Speak with the teacher about coming in for a 
brief and simple class party. Bring a small party bag (pencils, stickers, balloon) and treat for every student.
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WIN or LOSE PARTY GAMES
No one should go home a loser! 
Competitive games are enjoyable only for the people who win. A party should be fun...Avoid tears by selecting games where everyone gets a chance to succeed. For example, if it's a game like musical chairs, when a player is called "out", assign that player the task of playing the music.
After one round, that player will rejoin the group. Better yet, plan a few cooperative games, in which the whole gang faces a challenge, such as following a treasure map, then they each receive a prize or split 
the treasure evenly.

Be Prepared!!!
Try setting up your party in activity stations to lead the children in the direction of the party focus. The stations need not be fancy or expensive. The birthday child can pick what they want to do i.e. blocks at one station, dollhouse at another, play dough at another etc. 
You should not need more than four stations. (suggestions are included in ALL of our Party themes) Prepare ALL of the activities, games etc. before the party. This enables you to focus on the kids when the party begins.

Ask a friend , family member or neighbor to help with the party. It's likely you have a neighborhood teenager who would love to help, when offered a few dollars for their time.

Party Favors
In choosing party favors, it's better to spend more creativity than money.
Give a wonderful thank you item/items that reflects the party theme;
a flower pot and seeds for a garden party, modeling clay for an art party. 
You can even send the kids home with a treasure they've made during the party. The birthday child should hand out the favors. This will remind her to say "thank you".

Visit our Giant List of Party Ideas to find the theme that's perfectly suited to your child. 
Then stop by our party store to find themes and supplies made just for kids. Complete birthday boxes are the easiest way to go and you can use the add-on feature to add even more fun!

Remember to have fun and enjoy the celebration of your child's birth!

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